Perception/ First Impression
Everyone has someway somehow been judged by their first appearance. It could be by the way you talk, the way you walk, the way you stare, the way you dress, etc, and these are all little details that people analyze to have a sense of who we are. Some of these things could actually be part of our character, especially when people constantly have that same first impression about you.
Negative impressions could however be painful when you're being taking for some else you're not. Has someone ever had a false impression about you? Did you ask that person why they thought like that when they first met you?. Whether people's first impressions about you are right or wrong, there is always something that trigger that thought. I know you've had a false impression about someone before....What made you think that way?
You can obtain favor and acceptance from the very first impression you make or you could be blackmailed and rejected. whether you like it or not this is how it works in the world we are living in.
People's impressions about us don't change who we are but could characterize to what we are. Even though as Christians, we are to live our lives to please God and not men, our reputation in the society is very important.
Sometimes people have to CREATE that first impression in other for them to obtain what they want, and so Perception could be deceptive. But in this case, wouldn't it be a sin since you're not manipulating someone? ...
...well I don't know......
What do you think?
Has someone ever had a negative false impression about you for the first time meting you? or have you had one about someone and later realized you were wrong? Share your story..........
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